Hope it improves soon. I would also calmly change her as soon as she has an accidents. Could she wear little or no clothes in the house, so she can't get them wet? We put her back in nappies until she started backing down out of the power struggle and she took to it ok then. She can simetimes wake up in the morning in a foul mood refusing to speak or even look at us. It is life with 3 year olds. To tell them to find their own way to the airport in a foreign country. My son turned ten last month, and fir the past week and a half he's been wetting himself non stop. – Kai Qing Feb 5 '15 at 1:29 In fact I try to give her as many choices as possible throughout the day so she can have an element of control e.g. It's been nearly 3 weeks since it started and I've had enough. You know we love you very much and know it's hard being a big sister'. Your first post about difficult behaviour and deliberately weeing is very similar to my 3y.o. i try to be rea Eating less of foods such as citrus fruits (oranges, lemons, grapefruits, limes), acidic fruits (pineapples, tomatoes), carbonated beverages, caffeine and chocolate. Lots of changes at home and possibly less drinks/ stickers for weeing on toilet. Does she poo herself too? I also put her on the naughty step when she deliberately wet herself. This just started happening about a week ago. Answer (1 of 1): Take him to a doctor and see if he has a medicla problem with his bladder/kidneys. I am losing the will to live. Helppp!!!! Posted 10/10/2017. go to the shops, get out of the bath so she can mentally prepare herself for change. Diurnal enuresis is when a child who should be potty-trained has wetting accidents during the day. How did it all pan out? I think it's not unrelated to the fact that DS is starting to show typical terrible two behaviour so she's recast herself as the well behaved one . But it does get better I promise. Hi Ladies, I am looking for some advice with regards to my 3.5 year old son, he has been potty trained for nearly a year now and dry at night for almost 6 months. If it makes you feel better, she really won't remember this time in her life, although you will (tell her when she is moaning about her children). If he does not get his way and has tried everything else he will threaten to wet his pants. Sometimes he threatens othertimes not. During biofeedback, a specially trained nurse places stickers on your child’s belly and buttocks. 3 year old can't stop coughing: Cradle cap on a 3 year old?? The most important thing you can do is be patient and understanding. It's of vital importance that you remain completely unmoved throughout. She brags about it afterwards and one of the times this morning she immediately did it after I said she couldn't have chocolate before lunch. Daytime wetting (sometimes called “diurnal enuresis,” or “daytime urine accidents”) is twice as common in girls as it is boys. She was eventually potty trained in Jan this year just before turning 3. I also have a 3 month old. To use this feature subscribe to Mumsnet Premium - get first access to new features see fewer ads, and support Mumsnet. Use a sticker chart to track your child’s trips to the bathroom, and reward progress. She was better this afternoon but I think that's because I showered her in kindness and played games with her when she didn't wet herself. This is page 1 of 2 (This thread has 27 messages.). I've tried to completely ignore the wetting but she will go for hours in wet pants and she's started to get a rash from being wet all the time. She too was potty trained when she was two years old. 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